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I got spoiled during the pandemic. Yes, I know, we all had much to complain about ─ the cabin fever, the anxiety surrounding every cough and hot flash ─ but inconveniences aside, the online shopping was epic.

For someone who grew up when the only thing delivered to your door was the occasional pizza, the ability to order everything from groceries to glamping gear online and have it show up at your door, sometimes in a matter of hours, was positively life changing.

While the pandemic transformed shopping forever, consumers also learned that just because you can order about anything online doesn’t mean you should.

When buying something for your home, where feel, color, scent or comfort matter, you will be better off getting your duff off the sofa and into a store ─ unless you’re familiar with the product already. For example, if you like a friend’s toaster and want to order the same one online, go for it. But if the item falls into any of the following categories or can’t be returned, think twice before buying it online.

Mattresses: You really need to experience something as personal and expensive as a mattress before you buy it. I purchased my mattress after having a particularly wonderful night’s sleep in a nice hotel. I pulled up the sheets, took a picture of the label and went in search.

Pillows: Bed-pillow preferences are also personal, and you can’t rely on descriptions. One seller’s soft and fluffy may be another’s firm and dense. Feeling is believing.

Flatware: Considering that most people buy flatware only once or twice in their lives, this is not a choice to make on the fly. You need to handle it, feel its weight and balance.

Large appliances: Before you plunk big money down on a big appliance — a refrigerator, washer, dryer or dishwasher — experience it in person. Open and close the door. Get a sense of how the moving parts work, and whether the surface finish shows fingerprints.

Upholstered furniture: When comfort is king, as it is with a sofa, don’t make a decision solely on a picture. When ordering my sectional, I sat on a sample of the sofa in a store and felt and sat on different kinds of fill. I ordered fabric swatches to test, and, using masking tape, mapped out how the sectional would sit on the floor. Then I ordered it online.

Area rugs: Because you have to consider size, motif, material, color, quality and how it gets along with everything else in the room, area rugs are the most difficult home accessory you can buy. Get any one of those factors wrong, and the rug flops. Bring home several from a local store to try out. If you see an area rug online you like, order the doormat size to see how the colors look in your room and to judge quality. A small rug is easier to send back.

Paint: You cannot pick a paint color online any more than you can pick a perfect mate from a picture. You simply don’t know how either will turn out until you get them home. Paint colors look different on monitors than they do in real life. Plus, the color will change in your home’s light. To properly pick paint, bring swatches home, then get a few paint samples and paint them on boards. View them at various times of day on different walls, then buy the paint from a paint store.

Flooring: Similarly, seeing a picture online of a tile, wood or laminate floor in a staged setting is not the same as being able to stand on it, see its sheen, and feel its texture.

Scented candles or soaps: These items must pass the sniff test, which last time I checked, wasn’t an online option. If you love a floral scented soap or candle from a specific company, buy it online in bulk. But if you are unfamiliar with the brand, you might be disappointed to find that what the company says smells like garden bouquet, smells to you like rotting grass clippings.

Marni Jameson is the author of six home and lifestyle books, including “Downsizing the Family Home – What to Save, What to Let Go” and “Downsizing the Blended Home – When Two Households Become One.” Contact her at www.marnijameson.com.

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